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S&M: First time fears

I’m a fourth year girl and am still a virgin. I know it’s not a huge deal as I’ve never had a long-term relationship, but I’m tired of being embarrassed by it and am just ready to get it over...Continue...

S&M: Between a rock and a hard place

Hi S&M, I have a problem that I can’t get my mind off of. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year now — let’s call him John — and I’m absolutely certain he’s the person I want to end up with.Continue...

S&M: Flying Solo

“Hi S&M, can you please talk about female masturbation next?Continue...

Ask S&M: Nervous Novice

How do I make sure that when we hook up she’s not disappointed?Continue...

QJSex: Going down safely

Oral sex isn’t necessarily safe sex.

This may come as a shock for you if you were taught sex-ed with a pregnancy-prevention focus, or have just always considered oral pleasure to be both...Continue...

QJSex: Buying your first sex toy

Vibrators, dildos, sleeves, bullets, butt plugs, prostate massagers, floggers, branched dildos, strap-ons, nipple clamps, restraints ... these are just some of the many kinds of commercial sex...Continue...