For nearly a decade, Carly Robertson’s free hugs campaign has been a well-known effort at Queen’s, but students are about to see a lot less of her.
Robertson, known to many Queen’s students as the “Free Hugs lady,” has been asked by Queen’s not to return to the Queen’s Centre following complaints about her presence and behaviour. She’s been giving out hugs on Campus since 2015, but that came to an end when she was escorted out of the Queen’s Athletics & Recreation Centre (ARC) by campus security on Oct. 6.
According to Robertson, she’s a Christian performer known online as Joyfulfreehugsforjesus, but on Oct. 7, she received an e-mail from the University formally requesting that she not return to the facility, she said in an interview with The Journal.
In a statement to The Journal about the incident, Queen’s expanded on her removal.
“Campus Security and Emergency Services (CSES) recently responded to concerns received from people in the Queen’s Centre regarding the behaviour of an individual who wasn’t a member of the campus community,” Queen’s wrote. “Complaints cited student discomfort with an individual’s behaviour and messages being expressed, and alleged this person [Robertson] was recording students with a phone camera.”
The University said it will continue watching the situation, but Robertson hasn’t been officially banned. “Security staff didn’t issue a formal Notice of Prohibition (NOP). Security staff will continue to monitor the situation and may take further action if the unwelcome behaviour recurs,” Queen’s wrote.
When asked by The Journal how they felt about Robertson and her removal, Lindsey McBain, ArtSci ’27 shared that she was never personally bothered but understood the reasoning for her removal.
“I personally have never had a negative experience with the ‘Free Hugs’ lady […] However, I can understand the reasoning behind the [removal], as I’m aware that she holds certain political and religious beliefs that the school may not wish to be associated with,” she said.
Robertson sat down with The Journal to get her side of the story, where she confirmed she was escorted off campus and received an e-mail the following day.
“Security came up to me. I was just saying, ‘Hey, are you coming for a hug?’” Robertson said. “They were very kind, of course. They were never meant for me. But they said, ‘Some people were complaining, so I would suggest that you leave campus right now.’”
Robertson shared that she was quite surprised and upset but complied with the request. She expressed that her campaign is rooted in her Christian faith and a sense of purpose to spread “love, joy and peace” to youth.
Although not entirely certain of her next move, Robertson hopes to continue her free hugs campaign in Kingston and is actively trying to get back to Queen’s campus. She hopes to spread her message not only at Queen’s but also at universities throughout Ontario.
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Carly Robertson
Hi thanks Lilly for taking your time to interview me I just need to be honest It really is affecting me feeling like I been treated like crap and as a criminal after I haven’t done anything wrong but spreading love and joy peace all of these years and It should inspire others to do the same be kind loving and respectful. I’m hurt and sad and it hard to have confidence fully and not trust many people
Alex Fruh
Who could possibly be offended about spreading love, joy and peace to increasingly isolated young people? I just read that loneliness is one of the biggest issues facing Canadians today.
There is blatant anti-Christian bias on campuses. My daughter attends a Toronto university and experienced it.
It may sound hokey but hugs produce a positive effect within our bodies-a feel good reset that social distancing a few short yrs ago also undermined. Mental health issues among students is a huge problem with grossly inadequate mental health supports (we know personally of a student on a waitlist for over a year after attempting suicide and kept overnite in hospital).
Queens is also facing financial problems.What a cold and heartless environment-no wonder
they’ve been plagued by student suicides in recent years.
Malachi Garden
It would have been nice if this article explored some of the issues Queens students had with Carly as a lot of it had to do with proselytizing to students and bothering them as well as sharing homophobic nonsense claiming “gay communism is coming to America”. Many people also had a problem with contact being encouraged when COVID is very much still a problem for the immunocompromised. It’s not anti-Christian to be uncomfortable with being preached at, your identity villainized again and again, and being called at when you’re trying to go to class. I wish this had been a more rounded article.
Troy Schneider
This is the correct move by Queens. An adult SHOULDN’T be wandering around a student campus asking for hugs.
JennyMay Murrin
She is only after getting money. She spends a lot of time eating at restaurants or ordering out. She won’t even give a helping hand to those who need it most. If she truly believed in God she would definitely help those who are in dire need.
I am not trying to be hateful but ever since I have know her the only interest she has is collecting money. Her parents have had to bail her out so many times that they refuse to help her anymore.
I’ve had one bad experience with her and I’ll never forget it. She wanted to go out for lunch and I thought honestly she was treating me, but that was not the case she wanted to go to an expensive restaurant which I couldn’t afford and she couldn’t understand why I couldn’t afford it. I not once did she asked me if I could afford it so no, I’m not interested in this woman. I don’t mind her, but I don’t like the way she uses people.
Carly Robertson
https://form.jotform.com/ilovepizzaandhockey/Bringbackfreehugs
Carly Robertson
https://form.jotform.com/joyfulfreehugs/online-petition-form-with-e-signatu
CAN YOU ALL PLEASE SIGN THS ONE AS I WANT TO SEE PEOPLE NAMES MY FRIEND CHOLE SHE MADE ONE FOR ME BUT I CNT SEE LIST OF PPL THANKS 🙂
Carly Robertson
IT MY DREAM TO TRAVEL TO GIVE FREE HUGS OTHER UNIVERIES TOO 🙂 SPREADN LOVE AND JOY! https://www.gofundme.com/f/TRAVELLINGJOYFULFREEHUGS
Carly Robertson
It still is hard not being able to go on campus And I was feeling discouraged then recreated a new GoFundMe
https://gofund.me/1d2824565 it my dream to travel giving free Hugs to different university and cites
Jay
Alex Fruh
There is absolutely NOT an anti-Christian bias on post secondary campuses. People at universities come from a variety of cutural and religious backgrounds to study in their chosen field. No one has the right to inflict their beliefs, no matter how well intended, on people who haven’t asked for it.
Public spaces on publicly funded universities must remain secular to ensure all students have access to their studies, free of conflict, fear or… impingment.
Queen’s U / Kingston has many places for those wishing to practice their religion. Here’s a few on campus options.
Campus Prayer Spaces
JDUC Prayer Room. John Deutsch University Centre, Room 348 (3rd floor) …
Mitchell Hall Interfaith Room. 2nd floor, Room 210. …
Goodes Hall. Kolias Family Prayer Room, LL109. …
Stauffer Library. Prayer & Meditation Room, 2nd floor. …
School of Medicine. Prayer & Meditation Room, LL011. …
Law Building.
Schwartz Gloria
In the age of woke DEI progressiveness on campuses, it is shameful that Queen’s U — where I shared a hug and chatted with this young lady several years ago after my son’s convocation ceremony — is removing her while allowing antisemitic keffiyeh-masked pro-Islamic terrorist supporters to harass and threaten Jewish students and faculty for 2 years.
Carly Robertson
MAN DIDNT SEE ALL OF THESE EXCPET ONE HATEFUL C OMMENTS BACKLASHING ME EVEN A WOMAN LIVING HERE WHICH I DONT SEE HER LATELY BUT WOW
THERE IS SO MUCH HATE IN PERSON BY BEING CALLED ON SECRITY ON ME, QUEENS UNIVERSITY 3 TIMES, THEN REDDIT AND ON HERE BEING JUDGED WRONGLY AND PPL SO HATEFUL MAKING IT HARDER TO DO WHAT IM CREATED FOR AND PASSIONATE ABOUT SPREADING LOVE AND JOY FULL TIME AND I CONT CHARGE FOR HUGS IF OPPL WANT TO BE GENEROUS FINE! AND ESPCALLY WITH TRAVELLING GOFUNDME FOR GIVING OUT FREE HUGS! I DONT CHARGE IF I DID I WOULD SAY 5 PER HUG LOL AND I DONT HATE GAYS! THIS HATE BEEN HARD ON ME MENTALLY AND EOMINALLY NOT WANTING TO BE HERE IN KINGSTON NOT LIKE BEEN SEEING WRONGLY AND CAUSES ME TO BE INSECRE FEARUFL ANXOIUS AND SAD DEPRESS